Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Hepi Valentine's Day...again...

well, to all you couples out there...Happy Valentine's day!! Every year couples will get busy today with going to fancy restaurants having dinner, chocolate and flower giving and all the lovely things that couples do on valentine's day. don't get the wrong impression about what i'm going to write here couples. I'm not saying that it's bad to do all the things that you do on valentine's day and i'm not someone that hates valentine's day. But, really, was it worth it? I know, this is the only day that you guys can be romantic and see other couples go around with the girl wrapping her arms around her man and the guy trying not to get an e*^&*%^n (just kidding guys). And after all is said and done on February the 14th. the girls will get into a group of girlfrens and boast about how their man was a romantic guy on valentine's day. chatting about how her boyfren got her the loveliest present that a girl could ever wanted and how romantic the poem that he read to her under the moonlight and all the lovely stuff. and the girlfrens will say..awww, that's so sweet or awww, you are such a lucky girl...my boyfriend would never do that for me.
you want to know what the guys will chat about on february the 15th after valentine's day is finished? they'll probably compare how much they spent on valentine's day for their girlfrens and make jokes about the guy who spends the most. "how much? dude, that's not right" or "dude you could buy a plasma with that kind of money man!!" or "dinner at a fancy restaurant? hell, just cook it yourself. they'll think it's romantic"...or "i just downloaded the poem from the internet. works like a charm.." Most guys and i'm saying MOST ladies not ALL..don't get psycho on me for this one...thinks valentine's day as a day of sacrifice...football game?...no...if you know what's good for you, you'll tivo it...blizzard? better have your warmest coat ready cause your eating out in this ungodly weather...you forgot? hell no, don't ever say that...you are better off saying your long lost father called and he just had that day to spend time with you...ladies are crazy for valentine's day....the least you have to do on that day is give your girl heart shaped box full of chocolates...that's the LEAST you could do...if you could do more...good..then your giving your girlfriend something to make her friends jealous at your relationship and will make another guy's life miserable for a whole year until next valentine's day when he tries to outclass you...
hmm..maybe i do hate valentine's day...all the cuddling and love spreading around just gives me goosebumps...but, honestly...i don't know the feeling of what you guys see in valentine's day and why is it special....maybe it's because i'm single..who knows...but really...I don't see it...what else do you want to prove? you love the girl, she loves you back and boom that's that..does valentine's day proves anything? personally, i think valentine's day is great when you want to tell someone that you like him/her...then you'll have your anniversary with valentine's day on the same day...yayy!! save a little bit of pocket money...better yet..find a girl whose birthday is on february the 14th and confess to her on her birthday and valentine's day...bamm!! 3 in 1!! imagine how much money you'll save...hahaha...

woww...this post really looks like i hate valentine's day...hahaha...just joking guys...you guys do what you think is best...and for some girls out there appreciate what the guys are doing for you...i've seen some girls that are not appreciative to the things that their boyfriends do for them...and it breaks my heart seeing guys going through that...makes me want to be single for a long time...hell, who am i kidding...with this declining hair line (runs in the family), i think i'll be single until i make a lot of money which I don't know when or how...

well, to all couples out there hepi valentine's day...and remember..don't show your love only on valentine's day...show it all year round...and to the singles out there..keep searching guys...you'll bound to meet that special someone someday...and girls..there's a single 23 year old guy with a declining hairline looking for his soulmate...hahahaha...peace..

3 comments:

  1. hi bob =) i dun really agree with the view on celebrating v-day only with your significant other. i dunno how people might view this but i woke up on the last 14th with a special wish from both mama and abah and a simple card from both of my brothers telling me how much they love me bla bla. it gives great pleasure to the recipient (and of course to the giver as well) being reminded (or reminding) of those they love how much they care. in this sense, it's no longer a sacrifice but a mere opportunity to declare / show your love to another human being esp. your family members who'll stay thru your think or thin. after all, how many days in a year people do allocate the time to do something good for others, kan?

    and yes, people do go about different ways to express their feelings - ie. chocs, roses or just a simple wish. but to spend so much and bitch about it the next day.. then might as well just flush the money in the toilet. there was no sincerity in the very beginning so wasting money on someone worth lesser than your halo CD deemed to be quite a stupid decision after all. the math is simple you don't value her/him that much and you lose that much money on her/him. v-day is just a day to show appreciation - not to fulfill expectation - so let's not go about hating one day or another just because we are scared of losing our tivo/playstation 3 money to some overpriced bouquet the 'not-so-sure-if-she's/he's-the-one' girl/boyfriend might long for. a bit of an advice, quit making stupid decision and stop bitching about it altogether.

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  2. hmm..never thought about it that way...btol gak tuh..huhu..tak benci v-day pon..annoyed at some of the things couples do on that day jer..huhuhu

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  3. tengok singles..ilek jer..harharharhar

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